Biblical Truth.
Evidence-based Tools.
Connected families.
At Behind the Behavior Coaching, we support, train, and equip those who care for children with difficult histories. We've been when you are, and we want to help you implement a new framework for change.
You’ve Tried Everything, But Are Still Second-Guessing Yourself
If you feel stuck, overwhelmed by your child’s behaviors, and are grasping at straws, there is hope! You don’t have to walk this journey alone. Behind the Behavior Coaching is designed to help parents understand the meaning behind your child’s behaviors, gain practical tools and parenting strategies, and build strong, secure relationships .
Grounded in a Biblical worldview and evidence-based tools, each 60- minute parent coaching session is trauma-informed and customized to help caregivers gain new tools, fresh hope, and actionable ways to pursue connection and healing with your child. We are here to meet you where you are, offer proactive support, and work together to invite peace and laughter back into your family!
Our Core Services
Parent Coaching
Designed to help adoptive, foster, and kinship caregivers parenting children who have experienced trauma or attachment disruptions. We also work with parents of children on the autism spectrum to help your child connect and develop through everyday interactions.
Speaking & Training
Choose from a variety of classes, topics, and seminars geared toward churches, ministries, schools, teachers, ministry leaders, mentors, and others.
Consulting for Organizations
Equipping your church or ministry to welcome families with children of all abilities through resources, training, and a customized plan of action.
What People Are Saying
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Shaleigh Schneider, Director of Therapeutic Services, A Door of Hope
“Kimber brings a powerful combination of lived experience, deep trauma-informed insight, and a genuinely compassionate presence. I refer families to her because she offers creative, practical strategies tailored to each unique family system and she meets parents exactly where they are, with empathy, clarity, and tools that make real, sustainable change possible.”
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Michelle, adoptive mom
“We recently adopted a sibling group with one child who has special needs. Kimber reminds us to take it one day at a time, sometimes one minute at a time. The resources she sends between our sessions are just what I need for that day to be encouraged to keep going. Kimber’s wisdom, compassion, and amazing encouragement have been invaluable!”
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Tera Melber, Founder/Executive Director, Resound Trauma Education
“Kimber’s compassionate and trusted voice has always encouraged me to see beyond behaviors to reach the heart of my children. Her life experience, wisdom, and her evident walk with Jesus is a rarity in this world. Time with Kimber is always well spent!”
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Joey and Katie Colucci, adoptive parents
“Kimber created a safe, welcoming environment where we felt seen, heard, and supported no matter how heavy the situation felt. She has a gift for breaking down complex concepts into actionable strategies that truly work, equipping us with personal tools to help regulate our daughter (and selves) in trying times. There are no words to express our gratitude!”
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Ruth, adoptive mom
“When there was no playbook, and no community of support, God placed Kimber in our lives. With authenticity and grace, she came alongside during our darkest of days and listened WELL. She’s adept at sorting through the muck and complexity of family dynamics, and brings clarity and direction for each next step. She gets it, my friends, and she cares!”
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C & A, kinship grandparents
“Since working with Kimber, our relationship with our granddaughter has blossomed in unimaginable ways. Our connection has deepened, and as a result of the TBRI tools Kimber taught us, the need for behavior correction is almost non-existent. We couldn’t be more grateful for our sessions with Kimber. It’s been life changing for our family!”
Ready to Connect?
Whether you’re looking for individual support, organizational consultation, or to book Kimber for speaking, we want to hear from you.